As humans, our goal is ultimately to be loved, feel accepted and experience unconditional love throughout of life. Acceptance of who we are at our core, cherished and supported through our growth and evolution into an enlighten being. Held safe by our immediate soul family members during our difficult times as well as our good times.
Our soul families are our support groups. There are extensions to our soul families, bigger groups who are not so intimate with us as our core soul family members, but who bring us lessons. As we evolve and we open up our hearts even more, so we discover our soul family members. Only when you are open to love, can you receive. These extensions to our soul families can include specific purpose, such as groups of soul friends who show us courage or healing. Most soul families have worked together over many lifetimes. It is no coincidence when you discover a deep bond, spiritual connection or sense of love for a friend. It is possible that some soul family members may not have incarnated at the same time as you and so, they will be your spirit guide instead for this lifetime, guiding you from the spirit world.
Our soul family members may come in and out of our lives. We are always provided with a chance to view ourselves, take the lessons and seek the blessing. Often our soul mates are present as a mirror, they show us ourselves. Soul mates are our closest of friends, sometimes those who become our partners and spouses are not with us for the duration. But this doesn't mean they were not a soul mate. They were and most likely, will be again in another life. Just the same as those relationships that end, causing you pain and distress, there are lessons to learn and perhaps lessons that needed to be learned so that you could evolve and move on. This is our free will.
As vibrational beings, we attract the same as we give. We seek with others, the compatibility of goals, aspirations, values, respect, trust, loyalty and ultimately, unconditional love.